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Dating Success Strategies: 10 Lessons To Spice Up Your Social Life
If you are ready to start winning in the dating world, follow this simple strategy for success:
Lesson 5: Confidence = success The number one quality both men and women seek in a date or a mate is confidence. Confidence is also the key attribute that all professional salesmen must possess in order to be successful. People do not buy products or services from someone who has no confidence in themselves or the products they represent. Lesson 6: Establish a goal A confident person is one with a plan and a goal. What's yours? Lesson 7: Know your target market and give them what they want Understand to whom you are trying to sell yourself and what they are interested in buying. Lesson 8: Analyze the competition and do things better than they do Just as you would study a competitor in business or a rival sports team, study your dating competition if you want to win! Lesson 9: Take action and follow through Deal with your fear of rejection. Stop investing your energy and self-worth in outcomes. Instead ofthinking of 'misses' as 'failures,' think of them as 'practice shots'. Dating is a process. Stop placing so much importance on what the person you are interested in thinks of you. After all, you don't know if you would even like them once you get to know them, do you? Set small goals and accomplish them, one by one. Get passionate about your goals and your life. Enthusiasm is contagious, if you are excited about your life, people will be excited about being with you. Dress for success. Always put your best foot forward And don't forget to perfect your sales pitch. If you keep doing the same thing, you will keep getting the same result. Lesson 10: Live as if there may be no tomorrow Realize there are no guarantees, no dress rehearsals, and (usually) no second chances. Make each day "your day," one in which you did all that you could do. About the Author: April Masini is the best selling author of Date Out of Your League and Think and Date Like a Man, the online magazine AskApril.com, and the critically acclaimed Ask April advice column. Nicknamed, "the new millenium's Dear Abby," by the press-April writes what Dear Abby will never print and what your shrink doesn't have the guts to tell you! Visit www.askapril.com for more dating success information.
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