How to become skilled at flirting
The topic of flirting has been the subject of a number of scientific studies. In fact research has shown that flirting is done in every culture around the world, regardless of race or language. It is first important to realize that flirting is a basic form of behavior. By flirting, humans show that they are interested in specific partners, and if they did not do this, there would not be a way for humans to reproduce. Consequently, the human species would soon cease to exist. To flirt properly, it is first important to know the best places to flirt.
In our society of today, flirting at the wrong time or place can be inappropriate. It is important to know when flirting is a good idea. Perhaps one of the best places for flirting is parties. In addition to parties, any type of social event of celebration is generally acceptable when it comes to flirting. More often than not, flirting is not only acceptable at these events, but it will often be expected. These events are excellent places to find potential dates. While many people realize this, few understand why. The reason why parties are great places to flirt is because of a process called "cultural remission."
Cultural remission can be defined as an environment where rules and restrictions that would normally be placed on members of society are relaxed for a certain period of time. However, this does not mean there are no rules. Unfortunately, many people find this out the hard way at celebration at Mardi Gras, where getting to wild can get you arrested and thrown in jail. However, flirting in ways that would normally be restricted in everyday life would be allowed at parties or other celebrations. It should not be surprising to note that alcohol and flirting are intimately connected.
The reason for this is because alcohol is the substance of choice at places where flirting is commonly allowed. Some of these places are parties, pubs, clubs, bars, and even restaurants. A number of studies have shown that not only is alcohol connected to flirting, but it actually makes you more effective at flirting when you are using it. However, you must not go overboard when you are using alcohol, or you could end up in serious trouble. Another great place for flirting are colleges and universities.
About the Author: Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam – an interactive website offering dating advice and helping you plan a date.