What Attracts Women To Men
Some guys get all the women. Others get snubbed. Why the
difference? What do women really want.
Take a look at romance novels. The hero is always an alpha
male. Submission guidelines for romance novels by publishers
place huge emphasis on the hero.
He must be someone the reader, presumably a woman, can fall
in love with. He must be primarily an Alpha male. Meaning,
he's the leader of the group. Not a wannabe or second in
command. He carries himself with confidence. Men look up to
him. Women fall at his feet.
Appearance-wise, invariably, he is lean and muscular with broad
shoulders. The kind of body a guy gets from a healthy lifestyle
with regular gym workouts. He is strong, yet treats his woman
He is not afraid to pursue his woman. Now tread carefully here.
There's a fine line between what's acceptable and what's stalker
behaviour. Also, there are similarities between romance novel
heros and the serial killers in horror stories. What she reads
can influence her reaction to your behaviour. Pay attention to
the books she reads. If she's into crime stuff, pursuing her
relently and showing up at her workplace to court her can cause
her to panic, making her think more stalker than Romeo. If it
is romance novels she reads, surprising her with a huge bouquet
of roses at her workplace and serenading her at outside her
home will probably leave her starry eyed, or at least get her
to notice you in a positive light.
What can you do?
The easiest thing you can do to increase your attractiveness
to women is to head for the gym at least thrice a week and work
out with the maximum weights you can handle. Build your body
and the women would notice. From shoulders, to arms, to abs,
to butt, to thighs. Women like men with muscles. Go easy on
the beer. Apparently, romance novels typically have heros with
muscled abs and no flab. Think that is too much? What do women
do to attract men? Plastic surgery, boob jobs, starvation diets
just to look attractive to men. At least men don't have to survive
on lettuce leaves and have balloons inserted into their chests
to attract the opposite sex.
Beyond the physical appearance, a man's character counts. The
way he treats others. A caring man is more appealing than a
selfish lout. Okay, the Rhett Butler types appeal to romance
readers but in real life?
Carry yourself with confidence. Stand tall. Aspire to be the
best you can be in all ways. A positive attitude shows. Keep
your cool when others blow up. Your self control gives you the
edge and women notice such things. One of the differences between
the alpha whom women swoon over and the asshole who turns off
the women is not the appearance but the attitude. A guy who
growls all the time and blows up at the slightest provocation
and is so full of himself is an asshole. A guy who fights for
the rights of those under his protection, who takes responsibility
for his own actions, who is incredible patient and has great
self control is the alpha. The smart girls can tell the difference,
but the naive ones usually can't. Still, if you want your pick
of the women, better be an alpha than an asshole.
Sometimes a man may attract women for no obvious reason at all.
The attraction could happen at a chemical level. Humans like
animals secrete pheromones. These are sensed in a subconscious
level. Contrary to popular belief, pheromones are odorless,
though they are sometimes mixed into perfumes for that sex
appeal effect. If you want to go all out to attract women,
you can resort to pheromones. Not by refusing to bathe, but
by using a pheromone fragrances.
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