Dogging: Perversion or Thrilling Sexual Experience?
Today the whole Europe including the UK seems to be affected by dogging. Under cover of night hundreds of pairs go to beaches, parks and car parks to have public sex and be watched by voyeurs. Both the "actors" and the audience enjoy the show. Usually the participants arenít familiar with each other. Sometimes viewers join the orgy. After the orgy is over they go away and most probably wonít ever see each other again.
What doggers engage in seems to be a naughty sexual action lacking any human being emotions. But many people are so much thrilled by orgy outdoors that dogging may be compared with drug addiction. According to Collin Wilson, sexologist, a person at a dogging party goes beyond any limits of sexual freedom and looses his or her human self. In former times, Wilson says, only the dirtiest porn movies could show orgies in semi-public places. Wilson considers dogging the last straw, the point at which total degradation starts.
Many concerns are caused by the fact that doggers often choose the most beautiful historical monuments. Kent County experiences a wild outburst of dogging and local newspapers are full of reports about orgies that happen there every night. Legally, dogging is still a gray area. Though doggers are supposed to meet in secluded places other people, especially families with children, do not feel fully protected from witnessing a dogging scene when going to a nearest forest or park for picnic. Instead of catching thieves, policemen have to patrol car parks and other semi-public locations in order to clear dogging fans away. Even not talking about a danger of sexually transmitted diseases, all mentioned above is enough to raise indignation towards dogging in the society.
Lots of sites advertising dogging and swinging events that appeared in the Internet in a few past years cause a great concern among dogging antagonists. The sites contain detailed dogging parties descriptions written by the participants. Also they contain plenty of information on dogging locations. The sites often allow free access to site forums and chat where one can talk with real swingers and doggers and thus learn about upcoming swinging and dogging parties and popular dogging locations. Some dogging sites support more than one language contributing to interracial and intercultural sexual encounters.
Despite all these concerns more and more people are getting engaged into dogging. Every night they go to dogging locations, some only to watch couples having sex in cars and others in hope to be invited to join. Isnít it interesting to what kind of people do doggers belong? A doggerís portray seems to be similar in both Britain and other European countries. This is how a Spanish dogging site ("cancaneo" is a Spanish word for "dogging") depicts it: "Doggers are usually couples in their 30s Ė 50s looking for adventures, while voyeurs are mature middle-class men, most of them are married." It becomes evident from all info on doggers that can be found in the Internet that in the daytime they do not differ much from those objecting dogging. They have a certain social status as well and many of them are parents. Thus there must be something in a dogging action that attracts people so much.
A German journalist is sharing her impressions of a dogging party she observed in Berlin suburbs. "A few men in cars came to the location where the dogging party was going to be held. The location had been previously arranged via the Internet. They were waiting for a couple that was going to put on a show that day."
"Soon Iíve understood what they all had been expecting", - the journalist says, - "A young and sexy woman together with a handsome man appeared at the lawn. They were in the center of car lights so everybody could see them very well. The couple started fore playing: they were kissing and petting each other. They took each otherís clothing off and threw it to the ground. Then the man lied on his back and the woman sat on him. One of the viewers came out of a car and approached the horny couple that even added more thrill to the action. The woman was rhythmically moving on the man and the spectators were observing the couple having intercourse. Then another voyeur came closer. The viewers were getting more and more aroused; I noticed that some men were wanking. I felt so strange. I was getting aroused too, but it was weird that something other than sex with my boyfriend was causing such reactions in me. When the intercourse was over everyone left the dogging location without saying a word."
The journalist adds that even porn video had never affected her so much as the dogging scene did.
Experienced doggers say that a live dogging show is far superior to any porn video. A dogging siteís old member compares dogging with drug addiction: "If you ever watch a dogging performance your legs will bring you to the nearest car park next evening to see it again."
As we have seen opinions differ very much. Though there are serious concerns about dogging in the society it seems that in the future more sexually adventurous enthusiasts will be attracted by orgies outdoors.
About the Author: Irene, active member of http://www.eswing.co.uk