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How to Communicate in his Love Language
Are you wondering how to communicate with that new man in your life? Or maybe you are just wondering about the next man in your life? New or old, itís never too late to learn how to communicate in the language of love.
Maybe youíve seen the tomboyish girl that somehow has men flocking around her. If you stopped turning green with envy for a moment, youíd notice why she was a man magnet. She just sort of fit herself into him, like a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that he didnít even know was missing.
Instead of rolling your eyes at that dazed and happy-in-love look he has on his face, why not look into how she did it? Learn these tips on how to communicate in a whole new way by getting to know his love language and speaking it fluently!
We all know that love is built on the solid foundation of communication. When we are in love we are on the same page as our lover. Itís a special level of communication that people in love have.
Some call it chemistry, but really, in order to even get to the chemistry stage you need to know his love language. For a clue as to what that might be, we need to understand how he relates to the world around him.
Everyone perceives their world with three senses - sight, sound and feelings. Psychologists have discovered that even though we use all three senses, one of these senses is always more pronounced. It doesnít mean that it replaces the others, but if you pay attention, the more dominant one will reveal itself to you.
Asking questions is the easiest and fastest way to learn his language and since asking questions is the most common way to get to know someone or start a conversation, heíll never suspect.
Heís just returned from a business trip. You ask about his trip. Pay attention to his answer:
1. If heís visual he might say: the weather was terrible. I didnít get to see the sun once!
2. An auditory guy will talk about sounds: we got the account, which was good. But the hotel I stayed at was too noisy.
3. He is a feeler if he answers something like: I have to admit; Iím not much into traveling alone. I get lonely when I visit new places.
Knowing a manís love language is the key in how to communicate with him in a way that will make him feel that you are the missing piece to his puzzle. Youíll just fit. Of course, one question isnít going to tell you. Youíll have to watch for a pattern to emerge.
Once you do find the prominent sense, youíll want to speak his language. Talking with your visual man will be all about what you saw on the way over, while the auditory fellow will want to know about the new CD you just bought.
It doesnít matter what your love language is. As long as you know how to communicate to him in his Love Language youíll soon be the envy of all the other girls. That is, unless you tell them your secret.
About the Author: Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. This report reveals the secret strategies all high achievers use to communicate with charm and impact. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm