Tools for Pleasing Your Russian Wife
Really these are tools for pleasing any woman that you care about. If you want different results, you need to do things differently than you have in your past relationships Ė especially if past results were less than desirable.
The number one rule is that you must handle your responsibilities. This sounds easy on the surface, but lets examine it a little further.
This doesnít mean that you handle things at your level of expectations. It means that whatever you take responsibility for, you must master. It means taking care of things at the highest level, not at a minimal level, or somewhere in between.
The exact responsibilities you take on are negotiable between you and your wife, but usually to your Russian wife, they mean taking care of the bills and taking care of home repairs, and other typical menís responsibilities like car repair.
Probably she sees her primary responsibility as taking care of the house and the family. Your wife will be evaluating how well you handle your responsibilities. You should strive to achieve the highest level possible for you to avoid criticism
-- criticism that is justified.
Another thing that you need to master is to give her the best sex you possibly can. I am not going into in-depth detail on this subject in this book. I am only going to offer you three small pieces of advice:
First, whatever you are doing Ė SLOW DOWN. If she needs to replay it on video in slow motion because it happened so fast, you have not achieved this goal. Learn about foreplay and take your time.
When you think you have achieved this goal, you are halfway there. Slow down even more. Your wife will appreciate it.
The second piece of advice is that you need to learn to love oral sex. Why? Because she does. And I donít mean oral sex for you, I mean for her. Learn how and practice it often. Practice until you master it.
Lastly, take a shower before sex and brush your teeth.
Be A Good Listener:
When she wants to talk, you need to listen. That means if she wants to talk NOW, turn off the television and listen to her. Donít just put it on mute and keep looking at the game on the screen.
You need to continually show her that you love her. You do this by doing little things for her like leaving love notes and remembering special occasions. Telling her that you love her every moment you can. Think up new and different ways to show her how much you care.
Remember what was covered in giving gifts Ė lots of small ones. Women are quantity oriented. The gifts donít have to be expensive. Things like sending her a love note for each day of the week is enough. Be creative. Donít always do the same thing.
Despite what women say, they donít want to hear you talk about your inner most fears, doubts, and concerns. You are the rock that they are depending on. Talking about these things only undermines your position and you appear unreliable.
Iím not talking about not dealing with problems or lying or cheating. This is about not talking about your insecurities. Not only do you need to appear strong, you need to be strong. Talk to your good friends, your father, or your spiritual advisor about your insecurities, not your wife.
Make Dates With Your Wife:
Take her out to dinner. Take her to the lake, or ocean, or mountains for the weekend. Keep things mysterious. Surprise her with things she will enjoy.
You need to work hard to stave off boredom in your marriage. Relationships take work. The work isnít over once you get married. Itís only beginning.
Some of us not only get in a rut, we move in and furnish it. Be conscious of this.
Really, the topic of tools to satisfy your wife should be the subject of a book all by itself. This section is merely to give you an overview of the topic.
The real point of all of this advice is to remind you that the work of wooing, winning, and wedding the woman of your dreams does not stop once you get married Ė it is only the beginning.
The real work takes place after the wedding. Keeping your wife happy and your relationship intact is the key. Learn from men who have been married a long time. Watch what they do and donít do.
You will learn a lot from them. They have mastered the art of making their wives happy.
About the Author: John has been successfully married to a Belarussian wife for over five years. He has traveled extensively through Russia and other CIS countries. He will tell you why you should consider Russian women, how to meet them, how to bring your special woman home, and how to survive married life.