Tips for Writing Letters to Russian Women
In your initial letter, you should provide the following information:
∑ Your full name
∑ Your full address
∑ Your age, height, and weight
∑ Your email address
∑ Children you have and their ages
∑ Anyone who lives with you (family, roommates, etc.)
∑ Your marital status (presumably single)
∑ Your occupation
∑ Your hobbies and interests
∑ Description of your lifestyle
∑ Description of where you live
∑ Your personality
∑ Your goals in life
∑ Your expectations of your wife
∑ If you are interested in having children with her
∑ Why you are looking for a Russian woman
∑ Your feelings about religion
∑ If you have serious health problems
∑ Let her know if you own your own home
∑ Let her know that you can support a family
∑ Tell her you are serious about getting married
Things you should not do in your letters:
∑ Donít use slang or colloquialisms
∑ Donít use words or phrases she is not going to understand
∑ Donít try to explain difficult concepts Ė keep things simple
∑ Donít talk about your problems with women
∑ Donít talk about other problems in your life
∑ Donít talk about other women or other Russian women
∑ Donít talk about sex
∑ Donít talk negatively about anything Ė if possible, say things in a positive manner rather than negative (e.g. ďI like simple wholesome food,Ē rather than ďI hate ethnic food.Ē)
∑ Donít try to impress her with the things you have. You want her to want you for who you are, not what you own.
∑ Donít bad mouth other men who are writing to her or try to discourage her from writing to them.
When writing your first few letters to a woman, begin the letters with ĎHelloí or ĎHií and her name. Do not use ĎDearí as it will be translated literally into the Russian. To her, you will appear extremely forward.
You donít even know her and you are calling her a name similar to ĎHoneyí or ĎDarling.í English speaking people use the introductory word ĎDearí when they are writing a complaint letter or sending a letter to a person they are suing in court.
If you think about it, itís almost insane to use the word ĎDearí so generally. But it is a custom we learn habit and as such is an unconscious habit. Itís so unconscious; we do it even when it sounds absurd.
Itís about as unconscious of a thought process as putting Braille letters on a drive up teller machine, or when executionerís use an alcohol swab before the give a condemned convict a lethal injection (is he really concerned about the threat of infection at that point!)
You donít need to be Superman to impress her. You only need to be a normal guy. Unlike western women, who seem to be looking for somebody out of the ordinary, Russian women are more likely to be attracted to someone who has a regular job, has average looks, who has no bad habits, who likes a cozy home life and children.
If you are reliable, faithful, kind, honest, stable, you are everything she is looking for. It may sound ironic, but if you sound too wonderful, it may decrease your chances with a woman. She may feel that she doesnít deserve you or that you are out of her league.
Russian women suffer from a lack of self-confidence. A lot of it has to do with how single women are perceived in Russia. Donít overwhelm her, or you may scare her away.
About the Author: John has been married to a Russian women for over five years. He has travelled the path from finding her, to traveling to Russia, to bring his wife to America, and adjusting to married life. He will show you step by step how to do this yourself.