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How to Deal with Rejection from Women
Are women actually interested in you when they first see
you? Or is it that they are interested in what they are
seeing as a reflection of their own ideals and expectations?
And what about when women reject you or don't even give you
a chance? Has this hurt you before even though other guys
will tell you not to take it personally or to just 'keep on
approaching and you'll get over it'?
Well I'm going to help you deal with this 'rejection' and
set it more straight right now (for free).
What's really going on are many different things and on
different levels.
I want you to be able to differentiate a woman's response to
you so that you can understand it so that it doesn't hurt
you or even affect you but rather that you can learn what
hasn't been working and take advantage of what does work.
When a woman sees you for the first time, she is
extrapolating every little detail about you to determine
whether you might be a fit for her.
These usually accurate judgments she is making off of the
smallest details about you will help protect her or open you
up to having a chance with her.
In the future I will get deeply into getting yourself to the
point where you are communicating that you are everything
she could want even if you don't have the best looks or
money, age, etc.
But for now, this data that she is judging off of you is
either working for you or against you. You may have had
women blow you off or flat out reject you after you
approached and started talking or they never even gave you a
chance before you approached.
Is this something you should take personally?
I don't want to give you a shallow answer, I want to give
you the MEANING behind it; the schematics and reasoning so
bear with me and it will be worth it.
Does a woman even know you when they she first sees you?
Then how can you possibly accept any kind of rejection?
Just because you approached her and she rejected you does
not mean that you have a low character or are undesirable.
Does it?
Here's the bad news; some of the readers on this list may
actually have a low character and the women ARE judging
accurately (albeit without knowing more b/c they feel they
don't need or want to find out more).
This can all be changed so that any man can not only more
accurately portray more of what she is attracted to but
actually BE that man in congruity.
The primary key is for him to get in touch with his own
natural/ universal character and stop relying so much on
his limited independent or social character.
The rest of the guys probably do have a higher independent
or social character but just aren't being themselves when
they approach a woman. They're using a pick-up persona or
player front or they're just being a nice guy (overly nice
and not their true self).
Otherwise they're just not in touch with their
natural/universal character in order to spark attraction
anyways.
Too many guys these days (and it's being taught) are
focusing on the social and even independent (I'm a nice guy)
parts of their character when it comes to attracting women.
This sets a man up for rejection because these two areas are
the least important and are what women respond to the least
when it comes to attraction and her wanting you; it's just really
hard to see through it when women have become the rulers of
the social 'matrix'.
Natural order is flipped around in our social behaviour patterns
so you just have to see through all of the social influence and
deal with her biology; the one thing that doesn't change and is
what is the essence of what she desires that (healthy) men
would realize.
So if you are focusing on your social 'pick up game' you're
going to have to get real good at it and then because of
your high character, the charts work in reverse so that
eventually she may feel a spark of attraction. In other
words:
You have to talk her into it and let her realize that you
are a man of high character.
This takes longer because you started on the wrong end of
the character continuum in your communication and portrayal
of yourself to her.
Like I said it also sets you up for failure because you have
to get all of the words just right and her temperance is
wavering.
Hopefully this will help you understand why men are
rejected more and perhaps yourself in the past sometimes.
Understanding it is key to putting it in it's place and then
changing to do the more effective things.
When you are a man of high natural/universal character and
communicate this with your body language (often enough
alone), the universal/natural part of the woman knows to
respond to you and you don't have to use words.
She is prewired to know how to respond and be attracted to a
man that has a strong connection to his universal/natural
(which used to be almost all men but people were more
localized then).
Today, very few men are in full touch with this and those
that are, are the guys that are scoring the most with women.
It's that simple.
When you can get in touch with the natural/universal power
that is greater than you (and is your inheritance) you can have
that power to create attraction (naturally) and make it a part of
your own character...add it to your game and it will make ALL
the difference.
You won't even have to deal with rejection anymore because
you'll be able to read and communicate with women on the
nonverbal level (the unspoken), that which was formerly
invisible.
So back to the rejection issue...when a woman sees you and
you aren't effectively communicating that you are a man of high
character (either incongruently or because you just aren't
there yet), she most likely won't give you a chance.
The key is to understand where you are on the character
continuum.
If you ARE a great (nice) guy, then remember that she is
just judging her initial impression of you. You may have a
high independent character and be a great guy so just
separate that from the fact that you were currently LOW on
the natural/ universal part of your character and that is
the part she was disapproving of, not YOU.
So don't take it personally. When you do develop a high
character across the charts not only will you never have to
deal with rejection again but when you play it by certain
rules (your rules) SHE will be the one who is rejected or
disqualifying herself to you and you will have the power by
far.
You will always have the last word.
All you really have to have even if you have a low
independent and social character/status is a strong
connection to your natural ability (esp. if you aren't good
looking, poor or are much older).
So if you've been focusing on the social character and using
techniques and pick-up lines to develop your character to be
able to pick a woman up...just consider working on your
natural/ universal character instead; it's what matters so
much that a woman will HELP you pick her up by giving the
right signals when you do have a high character. You won't
even need pick up lines then.
In fact it's not until recently that we actually had pick up
lines or a need to study this. You just have to
differentiate the forced reality from the natural, timeless
reality of attraction and female response and separate out
all of what doesn't matter (such as her fickle independent
character when it comes to attraction and don't deal with
it).
Prevent rejection and isolate the possibility of it by
understanding the model magnet system and charts. She
isn't rejecting you, she's just placing a perception onto you
and judging you initially to see if you meet her expectational
response/ideal.
I like to say;
She can't sleep with a man of low (m.m.) character just as
much as you can't sleep with an ugly, fat chick.
And if you've taken one for the home team, that's about as
often as she slept with a man of low character (despite his
looks).
So make sure that you not only communicate the right things
but BE the man of the highest character that you can.
It's more important than your social character/status or
your own inner game and personality, it's about your
connection to the universal power of masculinity and secure
inner strength.
The feminine energy in her will rule over her fickle
independent behavior and her body just may not be able to
resist. This can all happen within a few seconds of her
seeing you.
At this point women will be approaching you like crazy and
throwing out all kinds of signs because this kind of man who
is in touch is so rare these days. The works already cut
out for you.
What would it be worth for you to turn the tables, never get
rejected and live that kind of lifestyle with women no
MATTER your looks, age, income or social status?
It's not a trick. It's real. And it's every man's
inheritance but he has to embrace and accept it. I am the
messenger because this power is greater than the greatest of
any man in history's own independent character.
You don't have to be a superstar pick up character, you just
have to be a man of (natural) character and you'll be able
to catch women's interest just by walking in the room.
And when you're already spurring attraction in her and she
can trust you by your body language, there's less of a
chance you'll get rejected anyways.
And if you're living in a dominant reality where she is attracted
to you and wants to be plus take the natural approach you can
prevent rejection entirely.
About the Author: Rion Williams is the celebrated author of 'Mens Guide
to Women' and is the first person to quantify and put
in writing 'what women want'. His free newsletter and
downloadable attraction philosophy eBook can be found
at http://www.modelmagnet.com
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